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As I mentioned in my post Wardrobe Basics: Never Pay Full Price, I love shopping on Ebay.  So many of my favorite purchases have come from Ebay.  I am going to try to cover all the basics in this post, but don’t hesitate to leave comments and questions :).  I would love to know about your experience with Ebay!

I have bought coats, jeans, shoes, boots, and jewelry on Ebay.  So far, I have not had any major bombs of purchases.  But, there is always a first!  See this post for some details about the items I have bought.

This post is part of the Wardrobe Basics Series – read all the posts here:

How to buy and sell clothes on Ebay:


The first step in being an Ebay-er is to set up an account and start growing credibility as a buyer/seller.  The more you buy, the more positive reviews you get, the more credibility you get.  Sellers sometimes have secret ways to manipulate their sales.  It is easy for a seller to manipulate a sale away from a novice buyer that doesn’t have many reviews.  So, the solution is to be a perfect buyer and start accruing those positive reviews!  Make sure you answer communications immediately and pay immediately – these do wonders to your credibility!


Search for items that you really want!  This is made VERY easy with their searches that use filters.  You can filter by size, brand, condition (new/used), location, color, material – anything!  If you have a specific item in mind (ie. those Lucky Jeans you’ve been eyeing) then make your searches very specific.  See Ebay’s Advanced Search options hereWhen you start looking for an item, know your measurements for that brand!  You can always run to the mall and try it on for perfect measurements.


I like to be very ruthless in my searches.  I like to filter items by “US Only”.  This might weed out some good buys, but I like to prevent cheap Chinese and Korean knock-offs from showing in my searches.  I also filter items by brand.  I know what brands I do/do not want and this immediately excludes “Unbranded” or “Homemade” items.  I also never buy Target clothes on Ebay.  I usually only use Ebay for high quality clothes I can’t normally afford.


I like to make a search once, and not have to repeat myself.  Once you create a complete search, set up an email reminder!  Ebay will email you every time an item becomes available – and you don’t have to keep checking!  I still get some notifications that are a few years old!


Before I bid, I add an item to my “watch list”.  This allows me to keep checking on the item, before I decide to bid.  When I want to bid, I wait until the very end.  I don’t need to keep racking up the price – or let people know that there is a competitor in the hunt!


I don’t want any old pair of jeans.   This allows me to narrow my searches and wait for the ideal item.  Make sure the item and seller are credible.  Sometimes I don’t want to take a chance buying from a new seller with no reviews to his name.  I also only buy clothes that have complete descriptions and great information.  Check their review policies and shipping charges – you don’t want to be taken by surprise!



I have to be ok with the fact that the item I order may not be perfect – nor what I want.  I hold these items lightly.  If a seller doesn’t have a good return policy, I have to be ok with losing the item – and potentially losing the money.


Don’t shop on Ebay if you need an item by tomorrow!  Again, I have been looking for some items for a few years.  I am obviously not in a hurry :).


I bought some of my best items after I communicated with the seller and asked questions!  One girl and I became friends because we bonded over the Seven For All Mankind jeans I was buying.  I love making connections – and it helps to know the seller.  Also, there is always the possibility that you could negotiate the price.


Ebay has an Automatic Bidding System that will automatically outbid each bid until you reach your highest offer!  This is cool if you don’t have time to keep watching an item.


If you lose an auction, you can always write a note to the seller. Let them know you are still interested in the item if the first buyer falls through or if they have similar items for sale. If the wining bid falls through, the seller can send you a Second Chance Offer to buy the item.

How to Buy and Sell Clothes on Ebay

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