✅ Going back to work after baby? Try these things to do on maternity leave to maximize your maternity leave! Start your own bucket list by doing something for yourself, planning ahead for the next season, saving your memories, and listening to some great books! Keep reading for my favorite tips.
I woke up in a panic one day during my maternity leave.
I felt like I was wasting it.
I just had my second child and am in the throws of a glorious HARD maternity leave.
Leading up to this time, I did so much planning – and preparing – and couldn’t wait for the “lazy days” of enjoying my new baby – and not working.
We are also doing a house renovation, and I just thought “I will spend all day napping and going to Home Goods!” FALSE
No mother wants to “waste” her maternity leave. Going back to work after baby is tough enough. To actually enjoy your maternity leave, you need to focus on yourself, give yourself one goal, start a small project, do something seasonal for fun, listen to an audio book, and prepare your home for your return!
Going back to work after baby – things to do on maternity leave
For anyone blessed enough to get a maternity leave – and I know it’s a true blessing – you know that your “break” is hardly full of resting and having free time.
In fact it probably goes something like this:
- 8-9 hours of feeding + burping + diaper changing
- 1-3 hours of possible nap time, if it goes well
- 4-5 hours of nighttime sleep, if it goes well
- 3-4 hours of feeding everyone else
That leaves a possible THREE HOURS for everything else – showering, sitting by yourself on the toilet, doing dishes, laundry, checking the mail, sitting down.
I wouldn’t call that relaxing.
If you are lucky, you will have a few minutes to binge a new Netflix show at 2 am before you have to think about going back to work after baby.
Here are my top 10 tips for enjoying your maternity leave to help the adjustment.
1. Do something that you can’t do when working
My favorite way to enjoy a rough patch is to take advantage of all the things you can do during that time – that you can’t normally do.
For example, my favorite advice for women whose husbands/partners are out of town is to eat all your favorite food and watch all your favorite movies that he normally hates.
Think about all the things you can’t normally do when you are working. Things to do on maternity leave.
And eating candy.
And listening to cheesy romance novels.
You need a maternity leave bucket list.
Even if the list is full of “Sleep, don’t cook, play with your baby” – it helps to write down your goals. Keep reading to create your custom maternity leave bucket list!
2. Focus on Yourself
With so many hours keeping everyone alive, it seems silly – nay impossible – to focus on yourself.
But, even if you just pick one thing to focus on during your time off, your emotions will thank you later.
With my first pregnancy, I was really frustrated with my skincare, so I spent a lot of time researching new face washes, and I began using Dermologica. I really loved this – and because I didn’t have time to do much makeup – I felt like focusing on my skin was a really healthy way to use my time.
With this pregnancy, I have been really sore since my labor and delivery. I began trying Earth Mama Perineal Spray, and let me tell you guys, it’s MAGIC. Maybe my body was ready to just heal anyway (I started using it about 3 weeks postpartum) but immediately my pain went away and I noticed DRAMATIC healing. This might seem like a really small step to take to focus on myself – but I am thankful for even the little things!
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3. Create a Newborn Photo Book for Milestones
Nowadays, all our photos are all on the computer. But don’t you miss old fashioned photo books?
Now, I know when you are on maternity leave, it is hard to find time to create photo albums and baby books. But, I have found the perfect easy photo book solution that you can create from your PHONE.
I discovered Chatbooks last year and it has changed my photo-sharing game.
Chatbooks is an automated service that will automatically print your latest photos (from Instagram, your computer, social media) and send it to your subscriptions. So, as often as you like, your recipients will receive an automated book of your latest photos.
BUT – I have discovered how to use Chatbooks to directly pull photos from your phone – and to manually create photo books for yourself and your family members.
4. Enjoy one seasonal thing
My first maternity leave spanned the Thanksgiving – Christmas season. And this maternity leave is during the glorious fall season.
Whether your maternity leave is around a holiday – or the beachy summer months – find ONE thing that you LOVE that you can enjoy.
It might not be a huge outing to a pumpkin patch – but pumpkin spice creamer on your next grocery run?
Or a new autumny blouse via Amazon Wardrobe that delivers straight to your door?
These are some of my favorite easy seasonal treats that don’t involve leaving your house:
- Add yummy breakfast items (muffins, scones and coffee creamers) to your weekly grocery delivery
- Add seasonal scents to your house (candles, essential oils)
- Use DoorDash or UberEats to get your favorite lunch delivered to your house
- Play new holiday playlists on Pandora and Spotify
Currently I am eating my weight in Candy Corn. Don’t judge.
5. Plan ahead for your children’s seasonal clothes
Speaking of holiday seasons, now is the perfect time to stock up on the next season of clothes for your kids.
First, make sure you sign up for your favorite store’s mailing lists to be alerted for all their sales.
If you have extra time and energy, head to your favorite stores – or even consignment stores – and spend time planning ahead.
I just went to my favorite store – Once Upon a Child – and got all my daughter’s fall clothes in 2 hours – and under $150. That is a huge win for this mama.
If you can’t leave your couch, test out Amazon Wardrobe and get kids clothes delivered to your house so you can try them on before committing!
6. Listen to an audio book
I wish I can say I read new books while on maternity leave. But you know that didn’t happen.
What was possible during this leave was listening to audio books. Even if I just have 5 minutes between feeding the baby and making dinner, I have enjoyed listening to a book!
The Libby app connects to your library card, and you can get audio books to download and listen to for free.
I love it for me – and for my toddler daughter. Listening to the Pinkalicious books is her favorite.
Just connect your local library card – search for any book or author – and “borrow” to listen. For free!
I wish this post was sponsored by them because I love this app SO MUCH. It’s been one of my favorites for going back to work after baby – but also just working from home. It’s great for every member of my family.
7. Start some physical activity
I really hate exercise. And moving my body after having a baby? Impossible.
But, let me introduce MommaStrong.
When I found MommaStong, I knew it was different and special. The trainer Courtney was doing exercises around her kids toys.
She encourages moms to just show up and do their best. She offers specific exercises for women’s issues, and all her exercises keep mom issues in mind. She has tons of SUPER short workouts for specific needs (ie. for when you have been sitting all day or when you aren’t feeling well).
She has exercise tracks for if you are pregnant, if you are in the 1-year mark of having a baby, or if you need a regular track.
All of her exercises are 15 minutes, and her goal for you? Just show up. No huge goals. Just showing up and getting stronger.
ALL of her exercises incorporate kegel exercises, and all support women as they recover from pregnancy, childbirth, and just regular mom/women stuff.
I could go on and on…but you need to check it out.
This isn’t an affiliate link or referral link. That’s how much I love this program.
8. Write your thank-you notes
This is the time to write those thank you notes. All those adorable baby clothes and diapers are sitting in your new nursery – but those thank you notes? Are the piling up?
BTW, if you gave me a gift, and are reading this – and I haven’t written you back. I’m sorry – it’s coming!
The best way to do this? Postable!
Just pick a card, type a message, and they mail it! This is not sponsored – it’s just REALLY COOL.
Y’all, they aren’t ecards – they are actually handwritten!
9. Stock up on household items – just like you prepared it for your labor and delivery
Remember all the preparations you did to have your baby in the first place? Make freezer meals? Clean your bathrooms? Have a year’s supply of toilet paper?
Do those things again!
Starting work again is HARD. And emotionally draining. You won’t want to cook, clean or buy toilet paper. So make sure you have those paper products stocked up so your home is the easy part of your transition.
Better yet? Use Amazon Subscribe and Save to put EVERYTHING on autopilot.
Subscribe and Save is my eternal lifesaver. I use this Amazon monthly subscription to order everything – diapers, soap, makeup, coffee, toothpaste, toilet paper… I love that some items come every month – some every 6 months. Also – if you have Amazon Family – diapers and baby products are up to 20% off when you use Subscribe and Save. It is EVERYTHING.
10. Prepare for going back to work after baby
All the sad faces here.
Who wants to go back to work? But – there are some things that will REALLY help you make the transition.
- Pump a supply of breastmilk
- Sleep train your baby (or at least work towards a sleep schedule)
- Potty train an older sibling
- Line up childcare, baby sitters, etc.
- Schedule your first few weeks back – take into account any doctor’s appointments, etc.
- Talk to HR to finalize your schedule, time off, etc.
That time is coming whether you like it or not. So make sure you do all the thinking ahead to make the transition so much easier!
Remember – you can do this.
Just think – in 4 months you will be working, raising this beautiful child, keeping house and doing it all JUST FINE. You won’t even bat an eyelash when you need to make a meal or buy toilet paper.
You can do this! The transition will be hard – but your family and life will be beautiful. You got this.
Do you have any pregnant friends that could use this maternity leave bucket list? If so, please share this post! Every mama needs a little help during this period!